Win Hearts

I met a guy a few days ago who was looking for mentoring. He had failed in academics, but he had learned DJ skills on his own and had a lot of confidence in his talent.

He told me that he loved performing in front of thousands of people and making them dance and enjoy his music, but he felt no support from his family. He said his mom thought that DJing was not a career.

I asked him, “Why don’t you follow your passion?” He looked sad and said, “I know I can do well here, but I don’t want to disappoint my mom.” His eyes were filled with tears.

I advised him to look for some part-time work that could help him pay for his living expenses and pursue his passion. I also told him that I could help him find some opportunities to perform at parties or functions and get lots of compliments for his skills.

The essence of enlightenment doesn’t lie in the pursuit of ultimate consciousness, but in understanding oneself in the present moment.

Imagine being poor with Rs. 10; then, as you gain more wealth, you consistently feel poor, no matter the amount, due to others having more. Remembering your true nature can change your perception: seeing yourself as kind makes you feel kind, and envisioning yourself as a master makes you feel like one.

A story from my childhood resonates with this idea: a king’s unruly son, forced to live as a beggar, forgets his royal heritage. Years later, the king, seeking his son, finds him in destitution and reminds him of his identity. The prince, recalling his royal lineage, sheds his beggarly life, transforms into a king, and is instantly treated with respect. He articulates that when he remembered his true self, he forgot his former state.

Constantly remembering our true identity eradicates the need for external reminders. Rediscovering oneself initiates transformation. Thus, by recalling who we truly are, a profound shift occurs, obviating the need for external cues.

Kabir’s verse: Guru Govind dono khade kake lagu paay Balihari Guru aapki Govind diyo batay.

I interpret this verse by Kabir in two ways:

One is that I was confused about the identity of the god and my master came to my aid and taught me how to recognize God and bow to his feet.

The other is that both my master and the God were present before me. I first bow to the feet of my master who introduced me to God.
Here are a few other instances where Masters helped their disciple outshine:

Tulsidas asked Hanuman if he would see Lord Ram, Hanuman assured him that Ram would visit his hermitage someday and he would be able to see God. When Ram came as a child, Tulsidas did not recognize him. Hanuman appeared and pointed out to Tulsidas that his Lord Ram had arrived.

Respect your master for their wisdom and experience. Do not try to impress them with your skills, abilities, achievements or uniqueness. Make your masters look more brilliant than they are and you will reach the peak of power.

Use these tips to outshine your master:

• Dress and act like someone who shares the values of your master.
• Let your master think they are smarter than you
• Always present yourself as a curious and eager to learn from the guidance and suggestions of your master

Do you remember the first word you spoke as a child?

Do you know how you felt when you took your first step when you had enough power in your leg to stand and move?

Do you remember your first day at the nursery school to start learning? What was the first thing that you learned?

Now, imagine how you have come a long way from your first word, first step, and first lesson in nursery school to become a good communicator, first uncertain steps to walking long distances and a skilled and knowledgeable person.

When you read the stories of people like Abraham Lincoln, Mahatma Gandhi, Albert Einstein, and so on who’ve set rules to work hard to raise their standards higher in order to make positive changes are unbelievable.

If you dare to raise your standards, the same power exists within you. It all starts with a simple change in yourself, whether transforming yourself, an organization, a company, a nation, or the world.

Time is now, the person is you, if not now, when?

After defeating Ravan, Lord Ram approached him and, with folded palms, spoke, “You have committed grave crimes, including the abduction of my wife and numerous evil and disruptive acts. Your crimes were heinous that I had no option other than take your life. Despite this, I acknowledge your wisdom and knowledge, and I humbly request that you share your wisdom with me.”

Ravan replied, “Oh, Ram! I only wish I had more time to be your teacher rather than your adversary. My time is limited, so I’ll impart the most crucial lesson I’ve learned in my life: Bad things easily captivate and entice you, leading you to hoard them impatiently. On the other hand, the things that are truly beneficial for you often fail to attract your attention. You skillfully invent powerful excuses to justify your disregard for them. This is why I was hasty in abducting Sita but never made an effort to meet you. These are my parting words, Ram; it’s your responsibility to recognize and embrace goodness.”

“I have this feeling of living a loser and rotten life. They say, every dog has a day but, it seems, my life is written without my day. Isn’t that even God supports only the blessed few?”

When you plant fern and bamboo side by side, the fern sprouts quickly but remains short, while the bamboo takes time to grow but eventually reaches great heights. It’s similar in life – sometimes, we need time to build a strong foundation before we can achieve rapid growth.

Our periods of struggle are like nurturing our roots and developing the right mindset and skills to handle success. Opportunities surround us, and it’s our task to recognize them and take action to forge our unique path. With continuous effort and creativity, we can craft a happy and purposeful life through the choices we make and our commitment to our goals.

God eagerly awaits us to rise to our fullest potential and show the world our glory.

रित्राणाय साधूनां विनाशाय च दुष्कृताम् ।
धर्मसंस्थापनार्थाय सम्भवामि युगे युगे ॥

In a world where nothing is guaranteed, here comes the promise from the supreme God himself through the verses of Bhagavad Gita:

To protect the good from the evil, I shall advent from time to time. It’s the faith in the Supreme God that has moved many ardent devotees to live with the joy, peace and prosperity.

God forewarns, God protects, God cherishes his ardent devotees.

Sit straight, close your eyes, wear a smile and feel the assurances of God. You will find no fear, no anxiety, no worries, no shortcomings. You are amazing under the armour of God. Start blessed. Stay blessed.

Thoreau said, “How vain it is to sit down to write when you have not stood up to live.”

Yesterday, during my commute home on the metro, I couldn’t help but notice how nearly everyone was engrossed in their mobile screens, diligently scanning, watching, and sharing various content with others.

This made me think the wisdom in such actions. While the sharing of thoughts, quotes, and stories from diverse sources is common, genuine knowledge is born from personal experience.

It’s not derived from books, blogs, videos, magazines, TV, or movies. It must be rooted in your own encounters with the world, your unique lens.

In essence, for better structure and clarity, it’s essential to live and accumulate personal experiences before you truly have something valuable to share with others.

Theist prays to God, saying, “O God, I accept you, but not your world.”

An Atheist prays to God, saying, “O God, I accept your world, but not you.”

A Profound Atheist prays to God, stating, “O God, I accept you and your world.”

To be a profound atheist in this world means embracing the beautiful journey that God has bestowed upon us. Recognize that you are the chosen candidate to enjoy, appreciate, and fully experience life on this planet, finding true bliss.

In the words of God Krishna to Arjuna, “Give up everything and surrender to me, come to my feet.” While some may interpret this as egotistical, Krishna’s message is to let go of all preconceptions and accept life as it is. Without fully accepting and enjoying life, one cannot achieve true bliss or renunciation.

God is not separate from the world; rather, God is the world, and the world is God. In God Krishna’s world, he declares, “I am the only one, and there is no second, neither in the past nor in the future.” Separating God from the world prevents us from truly perceiving His presence.

As humans, our innate desire is to find a purpose that transcends our individual selves.

What I have learned about the purpose is it’s not just a decorative accessory but a profound commitment that should coexist with our convenience and motives.

To embark on a journey of living a more purpose-driven life, we should aspire to maximize our purpose in three key ways:

1. Setting Goals: We must establish clear objectives that channel our surplus resources and efforts toward our purpose. These goals should align with our broader mission.

2. Choosing Words: Our language should extend beyond self-interest and embrace words that reflect a genuine commitment to a greater cause. It’s through our words that we communicate our purpose to the world.

3. Guiding Principles: To create an environment where those around us can pursue their own purposes, we should establish guiding principles that encourage and support their journey.

Ultimately, the path to a purpose-driven life entails using our abilities to rejuvenate and reshape our world.

May you be inspired and guided by your purpose!

They say truth is stranger than fiction, but what if it’s also rarer? Imagine living in an era where unbroken promises are as rare as a cold sun or a hot moon. This is no product of fancy, but the age-old tale of Krishna, where a man’s truthfulness put even nature’s most unalterable truths to shame.

God Krishna was uniquely known for his steadfast integrity, a promise made by Krishna was the ultimate assurance anyone could ask for.

As the fearsome battle of Mahabharat loomed, Kunti, mother of the brave Pandavas, found herself drowning in anxiety for her sons’ safety. Krishna, seeing her distress, calmly promised, “Do not fear, mother. Your sons will invariably return home from the battlefield unscathed.”

Kunti clung onto Krishna’s words as a lifeline in the tumultuous sea of her worries. As the dust of war slowly enveloped the battlefield, the Pandavas fought with bravery, their mother’s hopes tied to their valor, and Krishna’s promise protecting them like a divine shield.

When all five Pandavas returned home victorious, Kunti’s heart swelled with relief and gratitude. During their victory celebration, she praised Krishna, saying, “Your word is the epitome of truthfulness. It’s more conceivable to experience the sun losing its heat and the moon its chill, rather than your words proven false.”

From this point onward, Krishna’s fulfilled promise etched a mark in history, symbolizing unshakeable truthfulness. His inherent ability to honor his word, despite unparalleled challenges, defined honor and reliability. Krishna’s saga untangled an eternal fact: when one promises earnestly and upholds it against all odds, it generates an everlasting impact, akin to natural truths that stand the test of time.

Sage Jabali is visited by God Ram, Sita, and Laxman as they travel to the site of their exile. Jabali was trying to convice Ram to defy his father’s desires and return to Ayodhya.

Curious Jabali earnestly asked, “Rama, you’re a wise man. Why do you choose to obey an unjust order from your father? Why endure hardships in the forest when you are already declared the king of Ayodhya and you can live comfortably in your king palace?”

Jabali continued, explaining his beliefs, “To me, there’s no god, heaven or hell. I don’t see father or mother or brother or wife as bondings, but illusions. The only reality to me is this world – where we’re born and die. We deserve to live a comfortable life for ourselves.”

After listening to Jabali, Ram responded, “Jabali, you’re a smart man, but you’re ruled by your selfish motives and thinking. Your argument dismisses the mysteries of life – of creation and destruction, good and evil – all of which logic cannot comprehend.”

He continued, “Jabali, you speak of attachment to the world full of sorrow and suffering, but fail to see the eternal and blissful part of our existence; our true self that is in unity with God.”

Taking a deep breath, he continued, “Duties, honors and seeking true self are not illusionary bonds for me, they are the essence of life. I will continue to obey my fathers order and fulfill my duty in this forest and preserve peace during my entire exile period.”

Stunned by Ram commitment, Jabali admitted, “I spoke those words to see if you were firm in your beliefs. I am a believer in God, but I pretended to challenge your principles.”

Rama acknowledged his confession calm-heartedly. “Stay true to your beliefs, Jabali. Your words hold immense power and should be used for nobler purposes.”

This conversation between Ram and Jabali always reminds me of the importance of being steadfast in your beliefs and duties, as they not only define your character but also guide you towards the path of righteousness and truth. Misusage of knowledge and reason can lead us astray. It is wisdom that helps us leverage them in the right direction.

Do you dream of a quiet and serene place where you can work on your goals without being distracted or disturbed by anything? Do you think that if you could find the perfect place, you would be able to focus and get things done? If so, you are not alone. Many people long for a place of silence and calm, where they can pursue their dreams without any challenges or obstacles.

But the truth is, there is no such place. Everywhere you go, there are things that will disrupt your focus. Home, office, forest – none of them are free from noise and trouble. No matter where you are, you will face some kind of distraction.

There is a story of a man who learned a secret mantra from a master. He was told that if he chanted it non-stop, he would accomplish his wishes. He tried to do it at home, but he was always disturbed by his family and neighbors. He ran away to the forest, where he found a tree and began his chanting. But soon he was bothered by the birds tweeting, the animals growling, and the droppings hitting his head.

He left the tree and searched for another place. He found an empty field and built a hut there. He thought he had finally found quietness, but then a saint told him that a strong wind could demolish his hut. He was worried about losing his shelter, so he went back to his home and continued his chanting there.

The moral of the story is that you cannot wait for the ideal conditions to follow your dreams. You have to make do with what you have and create your own peace and harmony. Running away is not a solution, but a fantasy that distracts you from your true aim.

How can you create your own peace and harmony in any situation? Here are some tips:

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By following these tips, you can create your own peace and harmony in any situation and work on your dreams without distractions or disturbances. You don’t need to search for the perfect place or wait for the perfect time. You can create them wherever you are and whenever you want.