Far too often you hear the dialog of the Salman Khan movie, “Ek baar jo maine commitment kar di, fir main apne aap ki bhi nahi sunta”.
Similarly, the value of Raghukul(Lord Ram dynasty) was to fulfill the commitments even if it is at the cost of your life.
Most often we fail to think deeply about our values, our uniqueness and what differentiates us from others, and we simply flounder when we have to present our values in an articulated manner.
There is nothing else that can make you more valuable than you present what you say and what you mean closer to each other.